It has come to my attention that a lot of people, in and out of our community, is unsure of what is going on in and around SoundBarrier.
Our goal:
SoundBarrier is a BDSM and Lifestyle community. We have at least one Social and one SoundBarrier Party every month. SoundBarrier is not only about the one party a month and it's not about where we have that party. So in the future we might organize more parties or events to give people more opportunities to enjoy the lifestyle. Our goal with Sound Barrier is to create a place where people new to the lifestyle can join in a Safe, Sane and Consensual environment. We want to create an event where experienced players can meet, interact and play in play spaces suited for their fantasies.
Our People:
I have a contract to run SoundBarrier. In BDSM terms, it owns me as much as I own it. What this means is I am responsible for the organization of events, I am responsible for financial implications and I have to show up and do the work. That said, I rely on two parts to accomplish this.
First is our team. We have a specific gem (who's name I won't mention here but she knows who she is) who helps with organization, bookings, admin, admin, aadminnn, designing art work and much, much more. We also have an invaluable group of DM's that support us and our parties. Not only do they make sure that everything runs smoothly at the party but they also provide inspiration and support. More about DM's on another post I think.
The Second part is the community. SoundBarrier is nothing without it's people. We are all in this together. Some of us make mistakes. Some of us hurt and get hurt. Some talk and some form little clicks. It's not always pretty. There is drama now and then. Sometimes the boat gets rocked. That's life. That's BDSM. There has been drama, people not talking to each other, feuding parties, mudslinging etc. and after all that we are still here. A community doesn't need to be perfect and I wouldn't trade this one for anything. I love everyone in our community and there is nothing that we cannot work through. If it happens that you do not get along with another person then don't interact with that person. There is a lot to do at SoundBarrier parties and that's why we abolished the mandatory 15 minute before party arse licking (some people are disappointed, I know)
Our party:
At SoundBarrier you should be able to discuss what you want with whom you want. We talk about fetishes, sexuality and perversions all the time. Sometimes even how epic BDSM would be in a certain popular fantasy magic franchise. "You're a pervert Harry !" (Remind me to do a post about it)
YOU DO NOT HAVE TO AGREE WITH ANYONE. Just don't discriminate against them. You do not have to like the way someone looks but you have no right to body shame them. You are free to experience your fantasies in a safe, sane and consensual environment.
*"Your kink is not my kink and mine is not yours, and that is ok, as long as we all respect one another"
So to wrap up. I am SoundBarrier. But if you are reading this then so are you.
I do not subscribe to politics. I care about the community and it's safety.
Come experience the lifestyle with us but leave your baggage at home.
Oh and FYI the party will be hosted @ Fetish Haven this weekend. Come check it out.
*An addition from said gem.
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