Real life context. My subby pointed out that in my last post I may have given the wrong impression especially regarding Anal. This post is to clarify. What I meant was that Anal just isn't that big a deal "TO ME", compared to all the other fun and fantastic activities out there. It's all a daunting as you make it.
That said. If you do not want anything in or around your asshole (wanted to write but but but reads terribly) then that's ok too. A lot of people currently in the scene do not do any anal play at all. We have a very long list of rules at the club that are none negotiable and designed for everyone's safety. Consent is mentioned again and again. But... hehe. . . but here are my "rules" as Pace.
* No one can make you consent to anything that you do not want to do.
* If someone doesn't like what you like then that's a "them problem" not a "you problem"
* No one can tell you what to like or not to like. Including me. If I had that power you'd all be going to work in leather, latex or wearing nothing at all.
*** I will add to this list but these are the ones I want to talk about now.
The community exist so that people can explore their fantasy. It's not there to tell you what requirements you need to fit into a kinky scene. No one can make you do or like anything and it doesn't make you "Not kinky enough". We have people who come to the parties just to watch people having fun. That's ok too. You do you! Think inclusive not exclusive.
Unless that is what you want. There are some cases where people go into the scene to do things that they do not want to do. This is a very complicated scenario but it happens. I am more than willing to discuss this topic at the social or party.
Or comment below. Or chat me up on twitter.
To the point of this post (which is not shamelessly promoting our social), you are free to love what you love as long as it is love. If anyone tells you any different then there is an entire community prepared to rain hell down on them. Think angry mob but with an excessive amount of rope, paddles, whips and other implements of ass destruction.
As a bonus extra. Even if you do not want anything physically done to you, there is a lot of plays that can be purely about your mind. (also a topic for another post perhaps)
Thank you for reading and I hope to see you all tonight.
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